About Julie Frumin , LMFT

Therapy • Coaching • Speaking • Workshops

Hi. I’m Julie.

Thank you for being here. My mission in both my licensed private practice and my HealthierTech work is simple: to empower people – individuals, families, schools, and workplaces – to design healthier relationships with technology. I am not anti-tech – in fact, I am here to help make tech work for you, instead of against you. I work to foster connection, intentionality, and mental well-being in a hyper-connected world.

I am not immune to the pull of technology. I had a digital reckoning in my own life after having my daughter almost nine years ago, when I noticed that I was constantly distracted by news updates. I was so angry after consuming news, so I decided to try a ‘detox’ of sorts, cutting everything out except one 10-minute podcast reporting the top three daily stories.

I felt immediately lighter, less distracted and irritable, which created a curiosity in me that I wanted to pursue.

This was just the beginning of my start as a healthier tech activist. As a licensed marriage and family therapist in private practice for more than a decade, I have seen firsthand how unhealthy relationships with tech impact individuals and families.

And while it feels daunting to make meaningful change, that is exactly why I am here. I created the “Delay, Teach, Model” Methodology to guide you through lasting change for you and your family.

As a therapist, speaker, and consultant, I am deeply engaged with the local community through 1:1 sessions with individuals, speaking at local events, or even petitioning the school board for healthier tech habits in the classroom. This has become my life’s work, threaded through everything that I do.

When I am not busy advocating for healthier tech for all, I am spending quality time with my family. We love to be outdoors and enjoy all that Southern California has to offer. And, we love snuggling up together for a family movie with popcorn.

Kaiser Permanente (2013-2018)

Private Practice (started in 2015)

Four Seasons (started in 2018)

The Therapy Years

Healthier Tech

Healthier Tech is created to empower people – individuals, families, schools, and workplaces – to design healthier relationships with technology

Delay, Teach, Model

The Delay, Teach, Model Methodology is born and shared with families all over the world.

Notable speaking engagements

Kaiser Permanente Annual Pediatric Symposium & California Association of Marriage and Family Therapist Annual Conference

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  • "Julie was definitely a highlight for the guests at our signature event. She is a special kind of expert. Smart, disarming and insightful. Her deliver feels more like a great conversation than a presentation. Everyone will find something to relate to!"

     — John Knob

    Sr. Director of Brand & Communications, Cadence Travel

  • "Julie is a dynamic, entertaining speaker with presentations that are filled with actionable takeaways that can improve your stress, your relationships and daily life."

     — Dr. Marc Milstein

    Author of the Age-Proof Brain

  • "Listen, laugh, learn... Julie is a talented presenter who infuseses professional quality presentations with her natural charm, humor and stage presence. Her engaging style keeps any size audience tuned in and focused. Highly recommend!"

     — Michele Berry Morony

    Director, Kaiser Permanente

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